Weddings

There are so many exciting questions to consider when planning your wedding,
but surely one of the most important ones is where you will say ‘I do’!

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We’ve tried to provide answers to a few of the most regularly asked questions, but please contact us if you’d like to find out more.

 

I’m not christened and I don’t go to church. Can I still have a church wedding?

Yes! Often people find that preparing for a wedding in church is a helpful step in their spiritual journey, and sometimes they start coming to church more regularly as a result.

 

My partner believes in God but I’m not sure. Would it be hypocritical for me to get married in a church?

You are welcome to have a Church of England wedding, regardless of your beliefs. We would of course love to help you think through the Christian aspect of a church wedding, and making vows before God.

 

We’ve got children. Can we still have a church wedding?

Yes! And we can discuss how you might like to include your children in the wedding.

 

What’s your policy if I’ve been married before?

Different vicars have different policies. At All Saints’, I’m afraid that we won’t be able to take your wedding if you have been married before and your previous spouse is still alive.

 

How can I arrange a wedding at All Saints’?

The first step is to contact the church office, or speak to one of the clergy at a service.

We will usually chat through a few details with you, to make sure that we can marry you, before arranging an initial meeting with a member of the clergy. We can then arrange the all important date for your wedding and start the planning.

In preparation for the wedding there will usually be three or more meetings with your vicar:

  • A time to discuss all the decisions and practicalities involved in planning your service.

  • A time to explore and talk through the vows you will be taking together, and the meaning of the wedding service.

  • A rehearsal in church, usually the day before your wedding.

Please feel free to contact us with your questions.

There is some useful information on the Church of England website too.